Episode 19: Fetish Play Vs. F*cking

Show notes:

An interview with “Blue Topaz,” or “Blue” about fetish play versus sex

  • Blue is engaged and sexually monogamous with fiance, who is also in kink scene

    • Some history of Blue’s involvement with kink and vanilla relationships

    • The boundaries and agreements about kink vs. sex with fiance and other people

  • Needle play is something Blue does with other people

  • Rope play is something fiance does with other people

  • Fire play is something they do together with other people

  • More about fire play

  • Subspace described

  • How and when she subs or doms

  • What kink is really about and how she got involved in the scene

  • About munches

  • Safety and consent among kink / swingers

  • Where the play happens

  • About her bisexuality and how it works within her relationship with her fiance and kink play

  • More about her vanilla relationship past

  • Public openness about involvement in the kink scene

  • More about needle play

  • Even more details about fire play

  • The luck of finding her kinky partner

  • The nature of kink relationships — being open right off the bat

  • New kink interests on the horizon

    • Fire floggers on wish list

    • Kink registry for wedding!

  • A note about kink people

    • They are normal and fun!

    • Join us! Explore but be safe

  • The respectful nature of kinky folks as opposed to "normal" / vanilla folks

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